I was browsing in Anthropologie yesterday when I came across the book, I Love Your Personal Style: How to Define and Refine Your Personal Style by Amanda Brooks. I purchase the book, since it hit on a topic that I’ve occasionally thought about the this year, my personal style evolution. Every since I can remember my style has revolved around showing off my legs. I have always believed they were and are my best asset, at 5’9′ I’m taller than your average woman. I remember thinking long and hard about what to wear when I was going out with my sisters (I have 3 beautiful sisters) and trying to differentiate myself from them. In my mind, my legs were the key.
Now that I’m older I continue to wear clothing that highlights my legs, which is easy when you live in Florida like I do. Back in the day when I worked, my style of dress for the office was classic with a modern twist, now I like to mix several styles. Here are a few highlights from the author Amanda Brooks on personal style and how to find it:
- Personal style is a look that is all your own.
- Embrace yourself and your history.
- Self-confidence is good for both your soul and your style.
- Celebrate your creativity, express your different moods, and show off all the faces of your personality.
I believe your personal style will shine through even if you change your look from day-to-day. Now that I’m not in a structured work environment, I am having fun experiment with different looks, and shopping in a wider range of stores from vintage clothing boutiques to Bloomingdale’s. I don’t feel any pressure to conform to any rules or trends. Also, I don’t feel the need to dress like a “wife” ow that I’m married. In the book, there is a section on things to consider when you are working on defining and refining your personal style, one being age. Amanda writes:
“The word ‘appropriate” gives me the chills and has nothing to do with age when it comes to style. Women look best when they wear what they look good and what works for their budget and lifestyle. Everybody’s style evolves over time, but if you know what works for you and what you like you will never have to worry about dressing “appropriately” for your age.” Not that is some great advice! Gotta go, I’m headed off to the Bahamas for the weekend…. What should I wear on the plane? :=)
Have a great weekend!